Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Fun Facts

Fun facts about Kelsi:

1. Favorite color: gray-blue

2. Favorite ice cream flavor: Americone Dream

3. Childhood memory: I used to live in Florida and I remember a bright sunny day. A day perfect for yard sales. What did we do? We had a yard sale of course! I think I was around 7-8 years old at the time. We had our best friends over from across the state. I remember spending all day outside, blasting Savage Garden and wearing my mom's shoes. I loved that day.

4. High school memory: so many! It's hard to pick just one. There was one day, around this time of year, when we musical students got together on a Saturday to work on the set for Cinderella. I was a senior and I felt so cool. You know the feeling, I assume. I don't remember specific details of what I did, I just know that I felt amazing. I was finally part of the musical and I loved it. I wore flip flops and by the end of the day my feet had black paint all over them. There is something so satisfying about working on a stage with all of your fellow cast mates. It gives me warm fuzzies.

5. Nicknames over the years: kewsi, kelso, koose, crazy eyes, peach, effie, margaret gabby, pumpkin, sweetheart, popsicle, strawborange, madison. I mean, I have had countless nicknames but nobody ever uses them anymore. I think I'm ok with Kelsi for now. *I forgot one (and probably many others): Kelfie

6. Something random that is happy: getting free things.

7. Name a legitimate fear and explain: clowns. I was a Brownie in Girl Scouts and we went to the circus. There was a clown that would not leave me alone. To this day I get anxiety thinking about it. When I see one, I remember that and wish to avoid it at all costs.

8. Favorite music genre: road trip music. It is a genre. Nick and I decided separately that it was the best and when we asked each other this question, we knew it was meant to be. I mean, how many people really have the exact same taste in road trip music?!

9. Meaningful quote: Great dancers are not great because of their technique, they are great because of their passion. - Martha Graham. I love this quote because it reminds me to be passionate about the things I love.

10. Something recently learned: I was talking to Nick about how I wish I wasn't so reckless with my heart in high school. There was a boy I chased for two years and every time I felt that I got close, he would be less than nice and my heart would just hurt. I constantly forgave him and he constantly hurt me. My friends would always tell me to move on and that he wasn't worth it. Did I listen? Of course not. One day, he messed up real bad and I drew the line. My heart just couldn't take it anymore. I told Nick that I hope our girls learn from my mistake and lock their hearts. Nick knows the entire story and he put me in the right state of mind when I confessed this. He told me that I did nothing wrong. Until this moment, I felt responsible for all that happened between me and this boy. I was wrong to feel that way. One thing Nick told me will stick with me forever and I am so happy he will be the father of my daughters. He said (roughly quoted),
"I hope that one day our daughters are like you, Kelsi. Your love is a great example of Christ. The fact that you were able to forgive this boy for all he did to you time and time again is an example of Christ-like love. I hope our daughters will be able to forgive and love as much as you can."
I have since forgiven this boy again. I hope that I can teach my daughters how to forgive and love, but also when to walk away.


That's all for now, folks! See you on the flip side! :)

2 comments:

  1. you forgot a nick name.KELFIE!!

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  2. I love you, baby girl! You are so amazing. And Nick ... so wise and loving and good. You know, some mothers just shake their heads and tell their children, "I hope you have a kid one day who is just like you!" When I say that to you, I am truly hoping that you have a daughter who is just like you so that you will realize what a joy it is to have such an amazing baby girl. <3

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